The average boy theory

The boy was very confused and frustrated about the things happening in his life.He could not understand why everything were demanding lots of effort while sometimes back he used to achieve things effortlessly.Suddenly somebody came and asked him about his well being?Then Bhatia(the person,believe me he has reason and information about everything on this earth) told the boy one of his theory,he said there are 3 kinds of people in this world:

first one are those who are awesomely talented , who can achieve whatever they want with minimum of efforts,this is the best category and they enjoy their life to fullest.

second one are those who have no talent at all and they know it and they do not fight for things as they know they can't , they are hopeless and even they enjoy their life

and the third one which is the worst category is the average category, these are those people who know they are not hopeless , they have potential but they wont get things easily , they have to fight for everything , they wont get things without putting ample efforts and these people spend major part of things fighting for things because they know they can and they dont enjoy enjoy life as much.

Now the boy came to realise that for some unknown reasons his life has shifted to third category from first, he used to be among first category but with same amount of efforts as theirs he was not able to deliver.So, he started to collect evidences abut his being into the average category,some of evidences he found are
1.the boy was able to enter a top 10 engg. college but with hell lot of effort and after that he never did anything great , and at the end joined an average company

2.in studies he was always average in class

3. in sports he was average (average batsman , average bowler,average vollyball player, tt player) it was not that he was bad but he was not brilliant in any
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4.In music its not that he can't play guitar , he cant play any song ,he plays "papa kehte hai" very well" but he cannot proceed ahead , he knows he can but again huge effort required

5.looks wise the boy is average neither salman nor tushar kapoor

and many more.......................................

the boy finally realised that he was an average guy and he has to accept that he wont get things effortlessly

So, average boy is fine with his life and ready to put efforts its just he is stilll seraching for the goal.

There is a reason behind everything and behind that reason there is definately something

Just one of my another effort to gather people at my blog by putting some complicated catching heading but while writing that i feel this is one of my own phrase but something in my mind also tells me may be i have read it somewhere.

So , I have decided that now onwards my posts are going to be bit like me i.e is serious and confused with my usual jokes scattered all over.I am getting bored with the kind of blogs I am writing these days.I thought may be I got diverted from why I started the blog.So let me start without wasting much of my wee hours sleep.

Generally January is a very a mentally tiring month for me every year(sometimes I wonder from where do I get this mentally tiring month sort of concept ).The reason being my bday is on 8th march , so everything I plan to do in year comes down to jan feb march.I have to reduce more than 10kgs , i have to start reading newspaper daily, i have to quit sutta completely, control daru , all this things on these 2-3 months.Half of time goes in planning my routine rather than executing one or two properly(and look how smart I am, I know , I am writing but still I am doing it).Apart from that I am preety tired with this IT industry(fed up is more suitable than tired).EverydayI wake up and I feel like fir office .I am seriously missing those breaks after each semester, i feel very pity that why I cannot go for a two month vacation somewhere.Then I literaly advice myself to be practical and accept that college life is over.It's society,family,industry,money but where is my student life. Is it over.MS looks two much planning thing to me,MBA is not my cup of tea.And the best part is whole college life when I had tons of different things to study,I never ever got inspired to anything and when I have a job which does not require anything great , I feel like doing something but don't have time nor any reason.I can see time running , but i cant see where I am going . I cant even envision where I will be 6 months from now(infact i don't want to see that because it will be like just another day).
I seriously miss my college life wherein I had the freedom to do what I wanted(apart from that haunting ACA end sem paper night , and that alternator chapter where I spend the whole day studying somplex fundas behind alternator and when somebody asked what is an alternator I was blank , seriously great days great memories , getting bit emotional now so stopping)


And I know its very boring comment on blogs,I myself do it very rarely,but if you read it you have to because I know you have the time to see a porn mail more than three times but no time for comments.

Chalo bbye, thanks for the reading my frust story

There was something really New in this Happy New Year

This new year could not have been better than this.Last year ended in a memorable way with me and my friend Dd roaming at atta at around 1.00am in a chilling night . People were dancing on roads and we were enjoying our coffee with fog all around us Awsome! Awsome!.And the first day of the year was also good one with me spending most of my time with person i love the most (myself)in my flat .But it ended in an unforgettable way. With me and Dd enjoying our lavish dinner we were again lost in the fog around 11.30 to 1.00 am.We shared our childhood chutiyapas and I found most of those things very amusing.So we went back to recollect our childhood passions and we found that were very common.Some of them are

1.catching those dragon flies
2.collecting money in our gullaks
3.that diwali pataka pistol
4.dhanush baaan of ram laksham during dusshera time
5.searching whole day the best name stickers for our notebooks.
6.the anxiety to know what's inside the Almira in grandparent's restricted entry room
7.the frustration of summer holiday homework.
8.passion for cricket(even I used to remember stats of kenya bangladesh match)
9.our role models naagraj and super commando dhruv
10.and my lady bicycle and my 3 stroke priya scooter (in which i never experienced 2nd gear I always though there were two gear because after first it automatically used to switch to 3rd)
and many more...................

So although the first 3 quarters in last year were nothing good but in last quarter I finally was able to change few things . Got good control over my sutta (still not zero), got a bit responsible towards family , and the end of the year made a rule to buy something for myself every year (last year it was bike and cell phone and this year a laptop) , got bit positive in attitude towards things.

That's it
Happy New Year